Hi Lou,

Well, I decided I would call him once this morning and I said
'Are you okay?'
And he said he was fine and he sounded normal so I think he's got over it and I think it will be okay so I let him go and will just see him Friday as normal.

I admit, I do feel bugged sometimes that he doesn't seem to value my mothering contribution even if he does value me personally.

My greatest challenge is learning how to handle this resentful emotion and change it into something else.

Can you get your W's CC's changed into her sole name so that anything she spends, she has to be responsible for?

Jo.