Quote: ...I would want to meet her together (I have no idea what she looks like) and be with him as he tells her it's over...
I know it's late, but I wanted to tell you that I felt the same exact way about how I wanted my H to end it with OW. When I first found out about his A, I demanded that he call OW to end it. H did what I asked (he left a message on her voicemail since she didn't answer), but I later found out that he called OW back as soon as he left the house that morning. After finding this out, I told my H that I wanted him to take me with him to tell OW in person that it was over. I told him I NEEDED this! I needed to know it and see it since a phone call obviously didn't do the job. My H absolutely refused and said he would only call OW in my presence again to tell her it was over for good. So he made the call again leaving another message.
My H said OW had no knowledge of me so I had no ill-will towards her. When the A was exposed, she was made aware of H being married with kids (obviously). After finding out that she was still having contact with my H after knowing his sitch, I was furious and called her cell to "let her have it". Apparently after that, H told me OW told him to "eat s**t". As far as I know, they have not had anymore contact since then.
Ok, sorry for rambling! If you think your H won't go for it, chances are you're right, but if he did agree to do it, you might not EVER be able to get the image of her out of your head.
JV
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
