Hey Russ, Good luck with the move and can I say something??? Don't let her manipulate you like she does. Add some mystery if she asks you to have the kids say Look I love having the kids but I have plans that day that I can't change. If she asks what tell her you have a date that you are looking forward to, if she asks who with just say look I'm sorry but I can't have the kids. Like change the subject. Even if you don't have a date you do as far as she is concerned. She has to believe you are GAL she has to see it not just hear what you are doing. It seems a bit like she is still holding all the cards and you might be letting her. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. As for breaking in the bed well that is up to you. If you can find a buddy for that, that doesn't expect a R maybe it wouldn't hurt but if you think they may be hoping for more than that I would say no. You are not over you W yet and that wouldn't be fair to anyone else. Trust me I am a girl and there aren't too many girls that sleep with someone and don't hope there is more to it but you are the best judge of that. Goodluck with the move again and I will be in touch. Kim x
