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#451400 05/12/05 06:46 PM
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Get the play centre for your house.

If she wants perks like that from you she has to behave like your W first.

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#451401 05/14/05 09:47 PM
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Hey Russ,

Even if you get a condo, I wouldn't get the playset. It won't stop there if you do. It will be something else the next month. She has to learn to live this life she thinks she wants. Right now, it doesn't include you, so don't make things easy for her by buying things for her.

Be her friend, Russ, but you have to GAL and detach. I can feel you hurting. You don't have to date. That is hard but you have to start detaching. Focus on other things.
I know that is hard without your kids. I know that helps me quite a bit. But you have to be happy for you. Don't let your WAW take that away from you.

Hang in there.
Sherry

#451402 05/15/05 01:33 AM
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Thanks Sherry,

Tonight she asked to stop by my place after her run( 50Km trail run called the Kruncher) Nice visit, while her she tells me how she has to make 1 1/2 mortgage paymenys monday. Next questions is has the lawyers given me ny money. Yes is the answer....next she said she will have to borrow the money. I did not offer, then D had to go poop. So that ended that conversation.
She did have the leftovers I was putting away as she came in.
I would have liked to make her a nicer supper, but KD had to do.
I offered wine too, no she left.

Kids are good, happily drawing away as I type.

Russ

#451403 05/17/05 08:34 PM
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Made an offer on a townhouse this afternoon, should know by tonight.

Will be nice to be in a bigger place.

Build a life have fun.
Russ

#451404 05/18/05 03:18 AM
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Well I own a townhouse now, Closes June 10.
Now I realy have to buy some furnature.
Well off to the Brick I shall go. Do you whistle a tune and don't pay till Fall 2006.
Should be a nice little place. Double the size on my little pad now.
Will sign off in the AM.

#451405 05/19/05 10:33 PM
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It is fun to go and spend money to buy livingroom/bedroom stuff. Found a great bunk bed for the kids.
Did another run/bike workout this morning.
I am bidding on some ebay stuff too.
Fun fun fun.
have a nice day Russ

#451406 05/21/05 05:21 PM
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This is my weekend alone.
Did the run/bike this morning, I think I shall go buy the bunk beds.
It is so easy to spend money. And does make one feel better.
Went and saw some of the Knox Moun. Hill Climb this morning. Tough to see much as the cars race up the mountain in 2 minutes. Nowhere to crash no guard rails, cliff to one side. Wish I had my race kart here and I would do it.

S6 has asked me to go swimming with them tomorrow. Last time he did W bailed, what will happen this time?

W also does not really like the area of my new townhouse.
It is rough, but so is where I live now. Kids are always with me, and shall be all the time. I do not think it will be a problem. bad people are all around us, W had one of the largest grow ops found just down her street. That is organized crime doing those, there were guns, booby traps and the like there.

Life is what you make it, if you get lemons, make lemonade.
Or something like that.

Have a nice weekend all.
Russ

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Monday now, went shopping bought the living/dining room stuff, and went and found a king bed, bought that and expensive sheets, I thought the were, How high do the thread counts go?
just left are the appliances and bedding for the kids rooms.
Left W the movie I rented for Sat. night to see, National treasure, It is Ok.
kids are sick so I am not sure what this week holds in store.
I will be closing the townhouse deal this week.
Hope you weekend has been nice.

Russ

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Hi Russ,

Was the townhouse location solely your choice? I imagine the D may have influenced your finances a tad.

Maybe think about her voicing of concern as a positive, as if she were truly uncaring, this would show more signs of her moving on.

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
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Separated 8/2011

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#451409 05/24/05 05:47 PM
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Good point,

I think she will always care, but will she love?

Town house is what I can afford, is nice and I think the kids will like it.

Have a nice day.

Russ

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