Thanks sherry, Had the family supper tonight. was asked to come to supper on sunday, Mothers day...said yes...then I remembered the hot date I have that night, Quickly had to re-neg. I do feel a little guilty because she did say fathers day was coming. Am I suppose to get her a gift from the kids? They are making her stuff at school and daycare. Asked the kids they said they were looked after. What to do?