Just an update, and a question,
Lawyers meeting Wednesday to sign the separation papers.

Then she has to pay me out on the house.
She said to me this last Sunday, "with all the money I will have could I buy a play set for her yard?"?????????????????????????????????I tried not to react. I think I did OK, as I asked, Who would put it together?
what should I think at that?
Does that strike anyone else as wrong? Do you buy expensive gifts to improve her house, after you have split up? I know my kids would love it, and if I have lots of money. I would. But I do not. I want to use the money to buy a house for me and the kids when I have them.

I have enter a duathalon on Sat, should be fun.
I have a date for Sunday night
I hope I survive.

Russ