I am not sure what your wife's motivations are when you ask if it is positive toward you or is she just being a good mom. I think everything sounds very positive in your relationship right now. You are able to be together peacefully for the sake of the children. We can always build on that.

In the meanwhile, keep up with your own personal positive changes, being a great father, and a great friend. Everytime that you are with her and the children it offers you a chance to use your divorcebusting skills.

If you have another thread with more information, it would be best to stay on one thread until it is full.

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Arguing with reality is like trying to teach a cat to bark—hopeless. (Byron Katie)