Once again our parallel unvierses/separated at birth similarities are coming out.
As you read in my post, I was wondering the very same things about my W's behavior in relation to being comfortable w/ how our R is now and that it validates her decision for D. I just have to enjoy the R for what it is right now. I asked W to make other arrangements for the K's on Tu/Th nights as I need the extra time to focus on studies, so I won't be over at the house for a while and that will give me the chance to be a little more gray than I have been in the recent past. It will be interesting to observe W's reaction. Although, I told her that I would resume the help once school was finished.