Gabriel, I just wanted to pop in and give you my support.. I have seen your changes through your posts,and have faith that your wife will notice them, sooner or later... maybe we have to develop an alien repellent, get them to release our spouses.. You are doing a great job, both with maintaining your PMA and giving some of it back to us other DBers... thanks for all you have given to us, and keep up your good work...ukeejo