Thanks so much for responding to my post.... I have always valued your opinion and appreciate your comments with my sitch... Sometimes I wonder what would be easier to deal with as far as the DBing goes, having very little contact with the WAS as I have with my H or having almost daily interactions with the WAS as you seem to have with your W? It seems that perhaps seeing your W more frequently (perhaps due to your son), she is able to pay more attention to your changes. My H, on the otherhand has no clue of all of the changes I have made in just the past five months because we never see each other! Anyways... I really just wanted to say "hi" and let you know that I really do appreciate you taking the time to read over my post and give me your opinion with everything. I am curious what your thoughts are on the idea of having more contact with the WAS vs. very little contact at all. Do you think it makes a difference? Talk with you soon, Gabriel! Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend! -Kim