Koskka, its really important for me to teach S5 another way of being, so that he'll end up so much more emotionally and relationally healthy than his mother or I. This increases as I see W starting to repeat her past with him.
Lost and Martha, I get you about the reassurance and I do see the need for more mystery. W actually probably was bothered that I did not stay with this pack. Reality is that she'd probably be most threatened by an older, more established woman, as this would communicate that I'm not as her own worries/self-esteem stuff painted me before - relationally shallow, led by my penis, etc... My absence from the pack may have meant that I found someone and headed back to my room. She did call in the early a.m. the next day, and had to leave a message 'cause I was getting sweaty with several great looking women - but they were members of the UNC Lacrosse team, and we were all exercising in the hotel gym!
Lost, a very busy time is quieting at work, and I'm planning some fun stuff - just for me! Martha, I'll take a peak at what SD has to say about WASs.
