You handled that well. I suspect it will have a positive impact, but your wife might not verbally acknowledge it. I know that my WAW has not made a single comment about anything positive about me.
I'm not divorced yet either, but what Sam said about going through with divorce rings true to me. I think part of what makes me only minimally scared of divorce is that the pressure is off the R. I figure I have not a whole lot left to lose and my wife won't have so much of the "this is a ploy to get me back" feeling. And as Sam said, it gives them a chance to see the changes survive D. Sam, would you agree with that?
Hope
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
