Those are very good points - I like the idea of her positivity mirroring mine at some level. I heard something similar about how I was always negative about things and folks. I haven't seen that, either.
This weekend I'll have S5 again - back to 1st and 3rd weekends for us. We may get together with a friend and his 2 sons and have a testosterone-filled guys weekend. If it stops acting like summer around here and we get a break in the evening rain, we may do a campout and BBQ hotdogs and marshmellows over a campfire. Perhaps some boating down the St. Johns River. Otherwise, S5 and I will go to church, enjoy some donuts and just hang out.
S5 seems very excited to see me. Last night, W said "Hey, what am I, chopped liver?" in a joking tone, b/c he asked me to spend 3 days with him rather than him spending Fri w/her. I laughed at her comment, and told him I was sure that he'd have a great time with her.