Quote: A "there you go again" feeling clicked with me, and I realized that I need to work hard at giving W kudos for being a good mother, and stop worrying so much about S5.
What are some ways you can think to do that? In my case I realized today that I have begun "checking up" on W when she's off somewhere besides MIL's apartment, and it might seem to her that I'm "supervising" her time with kids. What specifially do you think you can incorporate as a regular part of your G-W-S5 interactions toward meeting the goal of showing W appreciation for her mothering/parenting?
From an earlier post:
Quote: Probably should be angry, upset about how I'm being treated to. Scary, but I do believe this treatment is not too far from how she was in the latter half of our marriage. That hurts to admit.
I don't follow. Did you mean W is treating you as she did in your M, or you believe you now know better how she felt in the latter half of your M?
Thanks,
K
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