Excellent advice, Ioavva!

I will keep DBing with the goal of friendship. W seems to be responding.

Had a nice afternoon/evening with S5. He's on Easter holiday, so W brought him to school b/t our classes (we both teach at a local college). S5 and I enjoyed an early dinner out, then on to a library, and home to play, watch a video, and play again. W seemed to appreciate my willingness to watch him, yet she went out of her way to keep my day as free as possible. She visited a bit when I dropped him off, and seemed to appreciate that I had waited for her to get off the phone (business call) to finish our convo and say goodbye. W actually said goodbye in a happy sing-song voice that I used to love hearing. Haven't heard that since pre D-bomb.

I will keep GAL work in full tilt, and hope that she eventually things again about our potential. Until then, we're hopefully moving toward friends.

Ioavva, how important was/is having a child together in your sitch? And do you have any thoughts about it in mine, given that the genders of LBS and WAS are opposite of yours? (others feel free to chime in here, too!)

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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