I'm sorry that I missed that the D papers had been signed. And I am sorry for you. However, it sounds like things are going reasonably well, and that's a good sign. There doesn't appear to be any major animosity from your W, so maybe she's starting to learn that all of the negative things she feels really have nothing to do with you and everything to do with her.
I'm glad you had a good Easter w/your S, too. You two deserve all of the good things that come your way, and then some!