Brief review: Me: 37 W: 34 5yr Son Separated since 10/28/04. Signed D Papers 3/24/05, with D likely finalized within 4 weeks.
Continued babysteps in my sitch. W moved from less fearfulness and more friendliness, back to a fearful, reactive stance recently, likely due to D effects. Yet there continue to be positive signs: No OP, W in therapy and stable at work, W commenting about her free weekends to me, and us co-parenting frequently and positively, with both of us keeping S5 as a very high priority. W is also focused on her finances and living situation. I'm staying focused on R and my GAL work. Friendship with W is primary goal. I'm attempting to stay unconditionally loving in a detached manner, focusing on S5 and myself, while I hope that, with God's grace and W's hard self-work, that she heals enough for us to have a second chance at some point.
