One of the main things was when the book mentioned that some LD people who said they did not think about sex actually did have short, fleeting moments that they just dismissed. My wife said that she did have these, but instead of acting on them, she just ignored them because she was either busy, had a headache ,or just being lazy. She also learned a little more about the fact that I was just not wanting her to spread her legs, but wanted more closeness. She is not done with it yet, and I hope she gets more out of it. I recognize that these are baby steps, and it will take much longer than the three months of great marriage in a 12 year marriage. I think my biggest thing to learn is patience, but man, that is not easy for me. I am a fixer, and when I see a problem, I go right for the solution. I need to mellow out more.
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
