It is so refreshing to be able to 'converse' with someone about this stuff. I used to hang out with my single friends before we got married. We were all long-hairs and hung out in rock clubs. Since I got married, I do not do these things much anymore and the long hair friends call only occasionaly. We (the W and I) only have a few couple friends, but we do not really hang out or do dinners with them. We have tried to make more of an effort to do that so that we are more social with other couples. What I really lack these days is that really good, close friend, who is really looking out for your happiness. That is the person I would usually talk to about this stuff. It is good that there is a place to trade ideas and get some advice from 'real' people who have been through or are dealing with similar issues. Thanks to all!


God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.