Quote: I have thought about just going myself, but this would be just like reading the books. If I am the only one wanting things to improve in this area, how is it going to help?
ONE of you has to change. Both of you are not going to change simultaneously. I strongly urge you to go by yourself. And for your W's info, NO therapist is just going to tell you to have sex. GO, Andy. When you start changing and being more effective, she will likely get curious. Somebody has got to move the first log in this logjam. YOU'RE the one who wants change, so start changing.
