What an interesting thread.

I agree that women's minds have to be engaged in order for their bodies to follow. Many times I've been downright disgusted by guys who just wanted to get a piece..

Otoh, there is a wide range of what constitutes "engaging one's mind" and it is a different threshold for all women. I think I need much less mental stimulation or "romance" if you want to call it that than other women. I am more body-driven and if I am attracted to a man, I will find a reason to find him mentally engaging. But I am VERY easily turned off by a bad personality, and no amount of physical stimulation will get me past that hump and perhaps that is where I differ from the HD guys. Who knows.

WB, that was a crazy story. People do seem to go after what they cannot have, don't they.

Honeypot, dreaming of what she has not been able to have for months now (and counting..)