Damn, defending CeMar is getting to be like a second job for me
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If you really believe that MOST of the LD problem is physical (and I believe you are referring to the LDW as you usually do) you HIGHLY underestimate a woman's mind/emotions.
I AGREE with CeMar. I need to preface this, that my extensive research is based on a statistical sample of 1. It can’t be all in the mind, now I’m sure that in some cases it is strictly physical and in some it is strictly mental. I have become convinced that for many people on here the answer has a large predominately physical aspect to it. Many of the relationship issues come from the resentment built up by the physical aspects of things.
Many of the ‘symptoms’, like desire after arousal, could be linked to physical problems. For my sitch, I have been asking, (begging, threatening an ultimatum?) for my W to go see a doctor and have specific things check. I think her problem truly believing that there is a problem, and specifically asking the doctor to see if there is a medical solution.
The way I look at it, if you have a migraine headache and go see the doctor, if you don’t say Doctor, I’m here because of my headache don’t expect him to relieve your pain, or even realize you have a headache. If they don’t find the headache it doesn’t mean that it isn’t there. Furthermore if you still have a headache a week later, if you don’t call the doctor and tell them about it, don’t expect it to get better with more time.
