The thing that really gets me about all of this is that we went through the same thing about five years ago. I can't believe that we made the same mistakes AGAIN! We got through that and that is why deep inside I'm convinced we'll be O.K. But day to day I have my doubts. (Like the other day she is sitting at the table with me in DEAFENING silence, looking at the APT. For Rent ads.)
Having gone through this once before (with W even saying that she was going to divorce me)and knowing that it was fixible, I really don't understand why she would want to give up, and why she could tell her family and friends that she wanted to leave, but DIDN'T TELL ME???
