yes read read read!!! it's a great book.

We've all the version of "I'm not in love with you" dont believe it....in fact I wouldnt believe much of what you hear right now difficulet as it may sound. Believe me you wife loves you - you dont just stop.

But as far as getting love back I think it's different for each person....but I dont think of it as getting it back, it was never really lost, just misdirected. Once the roller coaster ends you'll find it was there all the time.

Is it hard..........It may be the hardest thing you've ever had to do, but if it's worth then you'll get thru it. Divorce Remedy is a good book full of alot of good advice.