Hi, everyone. I've been married for 12 years and have 3 kids. About a month ago I found out my wife was thinking of divorcing me because she is no longer in love with me. We have different work schedules, rarely do anything without the kids, and have basically been neglecting each other. We have started counseling, and I am very hopeful because she now believes that it is possible (but I don't know how probable) to fall in love with me again.

So here is my question: How do you bring love back?? Is it as hard as climbing Mt. Everest? If anyone has any advice, or can recommend any books on how to do this I would be very grateful.


I think this ship is sinking...