busting

[Wendylon]

Dear Midip,

How lovely to hear from you (both here and on my thread). It's amazing to think that you and H haven't even been back together a year. You are doing so amazingly well and it does sound as if your H is talking more and taking responsibility for things. That's fantastic.

I'm over in your neck of the woods next week--Toulouse (Bouscayrens). I'd love to see you but I'm not sure how easy it would be to arrange. I'll see if I can find your email and will email you on the week-end.

I remember when you were here we talked about how difficult it is not to think about OW. I surprise myself these days as I sometimes notice that I haven't thought about her in a while. I think it really helped getting past all the anniversaries--culminating with their final break-up.

I think it's a great idea to go back to 'your' place to ski and reappropriate it. I want to do the same thing with New York. I suspect that you will feel better once you're past the anniversary of your H's return.

I love the idea that I'm not giving OW much of my psychological time. I hate to be the one to bring her into the R. Her presence has done enough damage as it stands.

Have just started watching the second series of Desperate Housewives. Great fun.

Good continuation and I'll try to get in touch.

Love,
Wendy