I think your H is very reassuring. You may never be quite satisfied when it comes to H and OW. I would try to stay away from that as much as possible. From my perspective, you have enough info to drop the questions.
I'm thinking of you and I'm envious even though I know it's not all easy!
Courage, Wendy
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
