Happy belated birthday, Midip. I'm glad it was a good one.

Fascinating to hear about H and OW. I know this has nothing to do with you and DBing but what do you think went wrong with the R with OW? She must have been pretty sure of him. Do you think that you played your cards so well she didn't have a chance? Do you think she messed up? How do you explain it all or do you not really know?

Anyway, it was lovely to get your update. I like what your gf says. It's a good goal even if it proves impossible to stick to 100%. Worth a try--I'd say.

By the 1000th pair of ski goggles the heart palpitations should be a bit weaker. Maybe you should program some desensitization time whereby you deliberately surround yourself with ski goggles (not when your H is around). I bet you'd get pretty tired of reacting to them.

Congratulations again on getting to where you are. I'm sure many of us would like to follow in your footsteps.

Love,
Wendy


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012