Midip, your questions and your anger are so understandable. I just don't think that now is the time to ask them and express those feelings. Hang on to them, you'll get your chance further down the road. You've done so brilliantly so keep doing what you've been doing. I imagine the relationship is still much too fragile to weather the sort of strain that that sort of talk would cause.

Good luck getting your PMA up!

Courage and patience,
Wendy

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012