I have little time to wax on, but I think your H's movemenbts are HUGE! Being up front about his contact with OW is key, as well as admitting that you'd need to talk. Fantastic you for giving him that space and creating the safety for him to be able to share. That is so very difficult to do!
Just keep reminding yourself that you have the rest of your lives to hash out the differences, but for now, enjoy your second honeymoon and make it last as long as you possibly can.
