Quote: I guess in my head I can't actively rebuild until I know it is completely over with ow.
I guess the question is what are you rebuilding? YOUR life, with or without H right. Try not to focus on the R for now, I know it is hard but you need to focus on you. What does Sherry want? What can Sherry do that will make Sherry happy? Your happiness can not depend upon your H's decision or his moods. Take it one babystep at a time, do not put a time limit on it. I am guessing that you are doing that to make yourself feel like you are standing up for yourself....ask yourself the age old question: Do you wnat to be right or do you want to be happy???
Quote: Things are sooo much better right now. He is different. He is better with the kids and with me. I do see things changing. I think I need to wait a little longer. Patience, patience, patience.
Baby steps, you will be ok. Your M will be ok. Stop all R talks, be positive and upbeat around your H, do a 180...eating dinner w/o him! GAL!
