I have read about the grieving process and I am dreading it. I think that is why my H is ending it slowly. I think he wants to see what happens if he puts a little distance between them. I think he hopes it won't hurt as much if he does it this way.
I am going to try and wait and see what happens.
Quote: My H told me this morning that he started this whole mess with OW and now he has to end it like a man. I guess he didn't think about the mess he left when he left home
I have a hard time with the way my H is doing this too. I want to scream what about ME and the way I feel. What about what you are doing to me? I have actually said that to him (not screamed) and didn't get anywhere. So... we have to be patient and hopefully our turns will come when they consider our feelings in all this.
