your doing really well with your babysteps! patience is the key. As you've read from my thread it's a hell of a roller coaster ride, full of ups and downs. and thank you for your reply.
DR can be very draining - mentally, physically and emotionally. At least your H was honest w/you about how he's trying to end things with OW. As you know it can be a hard set back to be told one thing to find out another.