Just now read your post. Sound like things are going good for you. Congats on the job transfer. You H sounds like mine. He is also taking baby steps and I'm happy that he is. Just keep doing what you've been doing...it seems to be working.
Karen
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years