You know, when you get a chance, go on MLC posts and read Wishingitwasovers thread. She is going through the same type of thing you are. Except he isn't "fully" home yet. But reconnecting.
All these feelings are so normal, Sherry. It's what you do with all of these feelings that matters..
Has H discussed OW with you at all? What does he say? Don't ask him about her but if he brings her up just say you understand..blah blah..But, I don't think it is a bad thing for you to set up some "loving" boundaries, either. Get the Love is Tough Book if you get a chance, it really addresses the OW issue.
Keep up your PMA..Sherry..Work out, call a friend..
I know how hard reconnecting is..I think it is harder than being alone. I only did it for a week and I thought it sucked. Like living with a totally different person.
