1. NO more R talks!!!! 2. Be patient, very, very patient 3. Continue 180's 4. Have fun with H (laugh, be silly, play--like we used to before having kids) 5. Continue GAL 6. Notice and praise H for baby steps (he actually told me it would take baby steps from him--he has frequently thrown DB jargon at me and I know he has not read it. LOL) 7. Keep going to gym