Sherry---Be patient, if your goal is still to have a loving M with your H, and I am pretty sure it is, you have to be patient.
I know you've read my thread, H moved out for 2.5 months and continues his internet affair with ow...does it suck, absolutely. Your H is confused and it hurts, I know that, but look back at your R before the bomb, is that what you want now. ow was/is not the match, she is the fire. IOW, she did not cause the breakdown of your marriage, she resulted from it.
You have made lots of progress...remember you can only control and change you. Give him space, and in the meantime use that space to work on you. Remember our motto.."you will make it, with or without H!"
By the way, read Sage's threads and read what she has posted to JVKB...she gives awesome advice and is a great success story. Very inspirational!
