Hey JV, it sounds like the "no contact" is working out well. Obviously this time away with no pressure has him thinking. IMO, if your H can work through his guilt your M can be great again. He is not happy at home because it reminds him of what an ass he was to do what he did and now he has to face the reality of screwing up a really good thing (no offense). I'm not saying your M was perfect, none are...he just needs to work through his feelings, unfortunately you can't do that for him.
I will say that you are lucky to have Sage's advice...she is right on!
