Well there were definately some positives in that convo with H. I know how you feel about the ILY's. I want to say it too, but my heart cant take the I KNOW response I will get. Sometimes I think that in my sitch, the no touching, no ILY's are so far gone now, that H really feels that he doesnt feel that way for me. He has totally convinced himself of that, but then why stay home. It looks to me like your H is on the right path tho. It appears he does want to salvage the R, just give it some time.