Yes, I was ASSuming, wasn't I? That's always been the main assumption for me in our R, and it always seemed to follow a disagreement. I never could get it. Somehow things would be tense between us, and before I knew it, H was calling me on the phone asking me to do something for him, and he was always being nice about it. I can hear myself right now in my responses to H. When he'd ask me, "Can you do that for me please?", I'd usually say, "Uh-huh" or "(small sigh)...Yeah." I held onto grudges for too long.
I'm improving in letting them go. Even though I was ASSuming yesterday, I was very pleasant in return. When H asked if I didn't mind sending the faxes, I responded with an upbeat, "No, no problem!" He seemed to appreciate that.
Thanks for stopping by, Sage. I really do appreciate your help.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
