I stuck to my guns all day and did not call H for anything. I had the kids call him at 8pm to say goodnight. S5 got on the phone first and right away said that H wanted to talk to me. H wasn't feeling well at all. He said he ate a hot dog earlier and now he's having stomach problems. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything, but H tends to act like a big baby when he's ill. He said he took some medicine and wasn't up to talking to the boys, so he asked me to tell them "ILY" and "IMY" for him. I said ok and told H to take care of himself. Then H said, "Keep the phone next to you tonight in case I need to call you. Please?" I said alright, just relax, then we said bye.
Even though H has been a bit cold lately, at least I know or feel that he still seeks my comfort. It's no biggie, but it made me feel a little better. I don't expect him to call either.
Thanks for listening.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown