Thanks, Sun. A bubble bath sounds terrific and indeed is in order!

I'm just curious, and if you don't mind my asking, what did you mean by you've "been in those shoes"? Did you write your feelings/thoughts down and your H stumbled upon them, too? Or did you say things in the past that H had a hard time letting go of? I have said some things in the past to my H (H and I both have), hurtful things, and I always apologized for having said them. I was always angry when I said them. I don't even remember saying much of that stuff, but my H remembers ALL of it. So with my H reading the part where I said it was hard looking at him, blah blah blah, I'm very worried about the effect it may have on our sitch. I know, I know! I'm fretting over something that hasn't even happened. This just feels like a big setback we definitely did not need.

Thanks for listening.


Valerie

"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown

"Piecing is not for the faint of heart." ~ sage