I agree with Sage...You have ALOT of postives in your sitch right now. I know it isnt perfect, but they are distinct positives. OW is out of pic, he wants to get rid of the car that reminds him of her, he is trying to take a step back to see how he feels, and HE HASNT LEFT HOME YET!
During the time that H is away on business, really take a look at yourself and see how you would like to move forward and make changes for you. THe betrayel of an A is hard to get over, but people do it. The first and most important thing is that the A ends. As for alot of us here, the A has not ended which prevents the moving forward on rebuilding your R. So you have a good head start.
You have handled yourself quite well, allowing H to feel comfortable in telling you his feelings and being there for him. When things start to look better for you two, your needs will be met as well. It sucks that your needs to be put on hold for right now, but they do!
