Chances are if he said he was out by Easter Sunday, and today is saturday, and he hasn't moved anything, he isn't going anywhere. And he has to to got to Arizona to boot? Nah, he ain't leavin. Not this coming week anyway.
What you said about your H's friend saying nice things about you struck a cord with me. But in my case, my H seemed to always see the bad in things, and once during our first divorce, his best friend told him he would kill to have a Sporster at home, and that H should think about what he is giving up.. Well, years later H asscuses me of sleeping with this guy, and quotes what he said. I started to notice if anyone (male) would say anything nice about me to h, that person would not be his friend for long. Example: Before this divorce we used to go to bike events with this other couple from H's work. When they found out, about the D , the guys says to h, his wife is gonna be pissed, she loves Sportster. They did invite me to dinner but since they were H's friends (and cause of what has happened in the past)I jokingly said "I think H got custody of you in the seperation agreement". Well, any time I asked H about him/her after that, he says he still talks to friend occasionally, but he is getting weird, blah blah blah. Yea, right. I think H doesn't want them to know what reason he is giving for divorce cause then they really would rake him over the coals! Plus he is involved with OW who also works there, and I have my suspicions that he has told her a different story all along about he wanted out.
Do you still want him to leave? I's say keep doing what you are doing cause he isn't going anywhere in a hurry appearently. And if you want him to stay this seems to be helping that.
