weird feeling, isn't it? You want someone to say something to them. like your MIL did. But then you know it puts pressure on them. Recently my MIL said something to my H but he got pised about it. I was not told what the convo was. Plus if it comes from family, its pressure and they are biased. I kept hoping one of his friends would say something,but then i realized that H couldn't have possibly told them much or else he would look like a total buttwipe.If it came from somwone they respected, a peer, a friend, maybe .But from family or us, nope.