He's leaving

[ValerieA]

Hi, Sun. You weren't butting in. I appreciate any and all thoughts.

I don't think there is anymore contact going on between my H and OW, but I can't say for sure. He did call her after telling me he wasn't going to, and he said after she knew about me, then she would call him from a blocked ID number. I have checked his phone less and less in the past few weeks and have seen an incoming call from a blocked ID a couple of times. I never asked him about them. It could be OW or it could be a customer. I don't know. I WANT to know, but I won't ask.

Pretty much up until this point, H has been very indecisive. Even after telling him to be out by this Sunday, my H has said things like "if I leave" and "I haven't decided yet." But he hasn't said any of that since finding out he can stay with a friend rent-free for 5 months. The "ILY"s have stopped coming from H, too, since then. H has called the house or my cell just to talk to the kids.

I know nothing is final, but it sure does seem to be heading that way. My H will be home in about 4 or 5 hours. Will he be packing his things then? I sure hope not.

Thanks again for the insight and advice, Sun. I've read your sitch, too, and I feel you. Hang in there and I'll do the same.

Thanks for listening.