I dont know what happened in your marriage as I have not been reading these boards very much as I am new, but what I do know is people say very stupid things when they are feeling hurt and upset. Its not an excuse, but you cant let those words eat at you, or your marriage will suffer. Just think of it like we are all human and we will for sure say and do stupid things, some of us daily. Try putting the past in the past and work on there here and now/future. You will see a change that you like, believe me. Dont let the words eat at your heart everyday all day, forget the words and work on rebuilding your marriage. I read somewhere that if a woman falls out of love with a man that there is like a 98% chance she will never be in love with that man again, and that a man can fall in and out of love with a woman, he can love that woman again. Also remember that 97% of all statistics are made up on the spot. A little humor here, hope I helped some.
