My gosh, HP, would you get better already!!! So sorry to hear doc slice-and-dice didn't fix you up, and even sorrier to hear about his piss-poor attitude. Unsanitary indeed, I'll show him unsanitary....
Gotta wonder if something didn't get ruptured or pushed out of place during delivery. The timing would seem to indicate perhaps a relationship. I'm sure you've already done a google search on pelvic pain (not that you need to find pelvic pain or anything). Any usable leads off there?