CeMar: Our "assignments" are for us to talk for at least 30 minutes, 3 times a week. We are to take turns initiating these talks. That is good for both of us. The other assignment is for her to be more physically affectionate with me. She agreed that she needs to work on this, and I believe she is trying harder in this area.
HP: The best book on the enneagram couples is by Riso and Hudson, "Understanding the Enneagram." I'm sure if you use Google, you can find some of the same info. Oh... here's a good one.
