One of my biggest gripes was, in our sex starved days, we would finally have sex...usually in the middle of the night, initiated by him, while I was half asleep and I would beg to do it again the next day and he'd say "sure" and that would be the end of that for the next 6 weeks or so. It felt so lonely and wrong. Anyway, the next day or days I'd be dying to recapture a little of the mood we had set then..I wanted to hug him intimately, kiss, talk about how wonderful it was, etc.
But instead I found myself following his lead and acting as if nothing whatsoever had happened and would you like lemon chicken for supper, blah blah. I hated this! And I was irritated with myself for following along with this false sense of "sex, what sex?". But it was too awkward and weird to have brought it up and what would I have said, anyway.
So that is one thing that I am so grateful for now is that I don't have to pretend that nothing happened or do this artificial restraint thing, whereby I don't mention it or disguise the fact that I've just had a really good time.
Perhaps men don't act like that, I have no idea. I know in my own situation, acting like I had just really enjoyed that seemed to put me further off from it happening again soon.
Anyway, things are definitely progressing in your home.
Will you talk with her any more about it, or wait til counseling or what?
